Many years ago, when I lived in New York City, I worked at a
small Christian school at my church along with Angela. Probably ten or fifteen
years older than me, Angela was wise, kind, and gentle. She had an infectious laugh, and I can still
picture her broad smile splitting her lovely, dark skin. That woman was so dear
to me.
Some time later, after the school
was closed, when I was talking with a church friend I mentioned in passing that
Angela was African-American. My friend was shocked. She insisted that many
people in the church leadership were racists, and because of that, my friend
couldn’t believe that the church had employed someone like Angela.
I’d
never mentioned Angela’s race to my friend? Really? I thought I probably had,
but how wonderful that I hadn’t! It was so completely irrelevant to me.
Angela was Angela. Her skin color wasn’t important to me. Who she was was
everything to me—a godly kind woman, whose memory, after more than twenty-five
years, drifts fondly across my mind like a lovely fragrance to this very day.
I grew up in a small town, population
five thousand. I went to school with fair-haired, blue-eyed Caucasians like
myself. I wanted brown eyes instead of blue; they would almost have been a
novelty. There were no African-Americans in our town, few Hispanics. Well into
adulthood I had little contact with other races or cultures.
Then I got married and moved to New
York City. Culture shock!
I walked down streets and listened
to different languages, quizzing my New Yorker husband about the languages I
was hearing. My mechanics were Greek, neighbors Italian and Irish. I picked up Yiddish and met Jewish religious
leaders when my husband covered events. And then, there was Angela.
They were all people. I knew I didn’t
agree with them all on life and faith, but they were people who cared about
their families, their jobs, and their city. They just looked different and
maybe spoke differently than many of the people I’d been around most of my
life. I think it was one of the ways God opened my eyes up to his world. Not
only that, he was preparing me for my church family, a microcosm of his
worldwide family.
If you walked into my beautiful
church, you would see that it’s not the architecture or the furnishing that are
extraordinary; it’s my lovely family of brothers and sisters. We represent a
multiplicity of Hispanic countries.
Others have European or Mediterranean backgrounds. Some would probably
just say I’m American, pass me the fries! When we have a dinner of ethnic
foods, it’s an epicurean event!
But it’s not the countries or the food.
It’s Byron, Marlene,
Javier, Annette, Dominique, Natalie, Barbara, Zis, Beth, Jon, Nicole, Bianca,
David, Marc, Amy, Rose, Gayle, Jim, Temeka, Derrian, Teresa, and all the others
who make up our wonderful family.
Their skin colors and their heritages are not the point of
connection. Who they are in Christ is the bond that makes us the beautiful
family we are in Christ. They touch my life every Sunday; they remind me of God’s
work in the world bringing the nations to himself. I am blessed to have the opportunity
to worship in a microcosm of Heaven each week.
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