I don’t have grandchildren. I have
grand-dogs—four of them. Each one is enjoyable, but Doodles and Jose are worth
meeting because they’re a study in contrast.
Timid, skittish, Doodles came to
our daughter first. A refugee of the underside of a porch in Kentucky, he
cowered when we initially saw him. His markings made him handsome, though, and
his gentlemanly style charmed us. It took him a while to warm up to our
household; it was obvious he’d been abused. For a long time he didn’t want to
approach my husband or any other man. Healing takes time.
Doodles is settled in his life now.
He perches on the back of the couch to survey his world, he alerts anyone
within hearing range about squirrel invasions, and he will snitch trashed cobs
of corn for a forbidden treat. There is one thing about Doodles that remains
the same and probably always will. Doodles is cautious about life. Can you blame
him?
Now Jose is a different animal
altogether. He’s a naturalized citizen of the United States. My daughter
rescued him in Mexico one hour before he was to be put down. There was nothing
wrong with him except that he wasn’t wanted. There were too many stray dogs.
But my daughter fell in love with him after he relieved himself on her friend’s
shoe. That little Mexican dog and my daughter were made for each other. In a
way, he’s not much to look at. He sports a lump and a scar on top of his head,
he’s bigger than a Chihuahua should be, and he did have heartworm. Oh, and did
I mention that his manners were horrible? Nothing gentlemanly about his dog!
In spite of all these things that
anyone might find reprehensible about Jose, he loves life. In fact, we’ve said
he’s like a cat in that he’s had so many lives. While Doodles studies what’s
going on before making much of a move, Jose thrusts himself onto a scene,
leaping into the lap of the first person he can find. If he’s scolded and
pushed off, he isn’t the least deterred. It’s almost as if he’s thinking: “If
you won’t love me, someone will. And I’m not going to give up until I find that
person!”
By now you’re probably wondering
that these dogs have to do with this blog. What these two funny dogs remind me
of is me. And maybe they remind you of you. No one gets through this life
without bruises, cuts, wounds of all kinds, internal, external, and emotional. We can sit on our “couches” and survey the
world like Doodles does, or we can continue to throw ourselves into the life
God has given us. I confess to being
more like Doodles, but I want to be like Jose. Nothing gets him down for very
long. He just goes pell-mell after life. God is working on me about that. I don’t
suppose I’ll ever be quite like Jose, but I want to be. So who are you more
like? I told you about me. Now let me know about you—Doodles or Jose?
I am like Doodles. I enjoy watching people like Jose but can't bring myself to be so unguarded.
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